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No One Likes Me


Dear Street Sage –

At work I feel as if no one likes me. I don’t understand, I’m friendly and I make jokes. My co workers are nice to my face, but I can tell they don’t really like me. I just think everyone is stuck up. What do you suggest for me to do to find my way into the “in” crowd?

– C.H.

Dear C.H.-

First of all, this is not high school. This is your place of employment. All I know about you is what you told me with three sentences. My suggestion is that you take a look at yourself and your actions. If you are telling me this is the vibe you are getting from all of your co workers, then maybe it’s you and not them. You say you are friendly, are you overly friendly? Boarder line creepy maybe? I do not know if you are male or female even, but maybe you give off a bad vibe to the opposite sex and they avoid you because of it. You say that you make jokes, but you do realize you are at work right? Are your jokes appropriate? You think your co workers are all stuck up, but how do they treat each other and others who aren’t in the “in” crowd? With the very little I know about you, I would suggest you check yourself a bit and get back to me.

That’s just my opinion.

– The Street Sage

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